Reading is one of the most critical skills that a child can possess. As a parent, you are likely aware of how important it is for children to learn how to read, though you may struggle with the question, “How do I engage my reluctant reader?”
It’s important to understand the root of your child’s reluctance. Is it lack of confidence? Is it frustration from fluency difficulties? Is it lack of interest? Pressure to perform (does it seem like a chore or punishment)?
Understanding the root, will help guide you in choosing the right approach to making reading fun. Once you find out the root cause, look for ways to address it, that speak to the way your child likes and wants to learn.
A few approaches to consider
1. Choose books based on your child’s interest: Find age appropriate books on topics that your child enjoys. This is one of the best ways to motivate your reluctant reader.
2. Use graphic novels and illustrated books: Yes, you are trying to teach your child to read words, but do not underestimate the power of pictures when it comes to learning how to read. Graphics coupled with brief text, can be a less intimidating way to introduce reading. The combination of visuals with minimal text, provide cues that help children understand storyline.
3. Incorporate audiobooks and read alouds: Listening to a story, while following along with the pictures in a book, can help build vocabulary and comprehension skills. This provides a less overhelming experience.
Making this a family bonding time, increases the fun, by decresing the pressure to read alone. Ask your reader questions throughout. Encourage them to ask you questions. This increases engagement and promotes intent listening.
4. Create a relaxing reading environment: It truly is all about the small things with children. Providing a special reading space for your reader can be a game changer. Think: reading nook, or reading fort. Throw a sheet or blanket over a table, put a comfy rug down. Toss in some pillows, stuffed anmials and lights and you have just created an exciting invitation to opening that book.
Make sure to designate this space just for reading. This way, your child percieves reading as a special activity to enjoy in their special place.
5. Set small, achievable goals: Big goals, notated by busy charts with numbers and busy texts can be overwhelming to a reluctant reader. Break your goals down into small, manageble steps. Set goals such as reading 10 mins a day or reading one chapter a day.
Using rewards is a great proven strategy to encourage continued reading. Reward progress with simple, yet fun incentives such as stickers, extra play time, or a special after dinner treat. You could also incentivize your reluctant reader with a book related reward. Perhaps after attaining their reading goal, they get to go to the bookstore to buy that comic or “How to Draw” book they wanted.
6. Use Technology to your advantage:
There are a list of teacher reccomended apps that you can utilize as a parent to motivate your reluctant reader. Apps such as:
- Epic
- Raz-Kids
- Reading Eggs
- Hooked on Phonics (This is what we use in our home and have found success with. I love the layout, the reading, hands-on, and digital activities).
These tools make a game out of the content, which brings a level of play to reading, increasing buy-in and allowing for a sense of accomplishment.
7. Celebrate progress, not perfection: Celebrate every reading milestone, no matter how seemingly small it may seem. We are not trying to sprint across a finish line, with the most books read or finishing a book the fastest. We are trying to develop a love for reading. Remember to use the proven strategy of highlighting your reluctant reader’s accomplishments. Recogntion and positive reward systems go a long way in fostering a love of reading.
Provide opportunities for your child to feel supported rather than judged. This will help encourage positive emotions associated with reading, increasing a stronger connection with the act of reading.
Final Thoughts
Encouraging a reluctant reader takes time and patience. Stay the course and your child will reap great benefits from it.
Do not compare your child’s reading skills or reading desires to anyone else. Each child is different and should have approaches tailored to the way they like and want to learn. Keep exploring new strategies and remember to keep it fun!
Please share any tips and tricks you have with the community.
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